HIP+HEALTHY
How to balance family, work, friends, business and health in a real way. It can be done!
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Mommies groups, networking and ‘where’s the free wine?’
Thursday, May 26, 2011
How did I miss this!
I’ve always been a creature of habit and someone who likes some predictability about her day. At the very least, I crave the ability to organize my day or week and have some idea on how it will unfold. Even though my schedule is really never the same day-to-day, or week to-week... I do have some routine built in. It keeps me grounded.
I’ve been struggling since Day 1 with baby to get a routine in place for me. I have been feeling at the whim of this precious small little guy who eats, sleeps and demands my attention at all hours of the day. I’ve been able to strategically sneak in eating, laundry, yoga (at home) and work when HE decides to sleep. It hadn’t dawned on me until this week that like us.. He needs a routine too and that we, as parents, are supposed to lead this for him. Where had I been? How did I miss this?
I’ve been diligently doing all my requisite reading but somehow this didn’t sink in ... Or perhaps I didn’t’ think we were at this point already. All of sudden I realized “if I get him on a schedule… TAAA DAAAA… I get my schedule back!” I nearly cried at the idea of having more time to get my projects done and to feel better about what I can accomplish in a day. In reading about sleep training, I realized poor Finn is probably as sleep deprived as I am. He doesn’t really nap much and he’s been going to bed between 9-10pm with several nighttime feedings. That was all fine and dandy for a newborn but he’s now 3 and ½ months and that just won’t do!
As I continue with the 40 days program, this week’s focus is on Equanimity – the idea of meeting life as it meets you in a calm, non-reactive fashion. From a yoga perspective it means staying in a pose even when you’re mind is telling you to quit. This concept of keeping my cool will do me well as we begin to put Finn to bed at 7pm this week. I’m sure the tears will flow (probably from both of us) but staying firm yet calm will get us through. Wish all of us luck.
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Balancing Baby & Business - Can it be done? Part 1
Well this blog entry is LONGGGGG overdue.
I’ve been busy with a new baby and all that entails. You really can never be fully prepared for life with a newborn, no matter what people tell you or what you read. I had visions (more like delusions) that I could easily have a few hours a day to address emails, touch in with patients, market my practice, write up health tidbits on facebook and twitter, blog, beef up on new medical research… Well let me tell you. When they say new moms barely have time to shower or brush their teeth. That is NO JOKE! Quickly, any thought of work was long in the past. And when I did have to address things, I would have to jot a note down to address it when I had a free moment. I’m one of those diligent people who respond to emails quickly, look up things as soon as they enter my mind, jump up at a moment’s notice when inspiration hits… now I am forced to keep a notebook within arm’s distance that holds a running list of things to do. Basic simple things like “look up how to make blackberry salad dressing”, call “so-and-so” back, respond to emails, remember to pay rent, etc.
The long and short of it is… LIFE HAS CHANGED.
And as a result, I have a changed along with it. Patience, which has always eluded me, has been forcefully demanding of me. And the independence that I once enjoyed has now been replaced with careful planning and thoughtful logistics.
But… I couldn’t be happier.
The fine balance of having a child and running a business is one I’m beginning to maneuver. I’m 3 months into mommyhood and I’m finally lifting my head up and wanting to re-enter the world outside one filled with breastfeeding, dirty diaper, and speaking in new “parent-ese” tones.
What has always amazed me about life is that things and people enter just when you need it. I attended a weekend-long chakra-clearing/meditating class for my continue education units for my acupuncture license. It wasn’t a class I would have normally signed up for and the timing wasn’t great (hadn’t started bottle feeding my baby) but I was scurrying around to fulfill units to renew my license. It was AMAZING and allowed this scattered, unfocused new momma a chance to reconnect with myself. Meditating for hours on end will force you to do that! It couldn’t have come at a better time. I felt renewed and ready to re-enter my life.
Another amazing thing happened… I’m doing 40-days to Personal Revolution – a program that includes daily meditation, yoga, nutritional changes and journal writing. I’m actually helping to facilitate this program from a Chinese Nutritional perspective and our group decided to go through it together to work out any ‘bugs’, to refine the program and to connect to each other as a group. Again, it wasn’t planned but something we decided to do at the last minute when one of our virtual programs had low enrollment. Again. Hadn’t planned for it but what a gift. After just 4 days, I’ve begun to feel better physically and have addressed some outstanding issues in my relationship that came up when I was journaling. I also feel more grounded and better able to roll with the day-to-day demands (and lack of sleep).
I’ll write more on my experiences as a new mom doing the 40 days in follow-up blog entries… I think it may be something that could benefit a lot of new mommies who are at home, feeling out of sorts with themselves, looking to connect to others and hoping to regain a bit of their old body and spirit. Can’t wait to share…
Jenn
Friday, October 8, 2010
Remedies for PMS
PMS Relief Tea
Pour a quart of boiling water over 4 tablespoons dried nettles* (plus a tablespoon of spearmint or peppermint for flavor); steep for at least 20 minutes, and strain. Drink 2 cups or more daily.
Cramp Relief Tea
Add 5 to 6 tablespoons of fresh or dried ginger to 1 quart of water; cover and simmer for 10 minutes. Add honey and lemon to flavor. Sip hot throughout the day.
Fatigue Fixing Tea
Mix equal parts dried nettles, raspberry leaf, oat tops, and lemon balm with 1/4 part each of cut-and sifted licorice and ginger. Drink 3 cups daily.
*Nettles contain Flavanoids (antioxidants), Iron, Vitamin C, Malic Acid (helps the cells to work), Polysaccarides (a complex carbohydrate) Nettle tea is a great overall healthy tonic, helping your blood cells build, function and circulates properly. Because of its iron content, it helps with anemia. Nettle tea is an old folk remedy for hay fever. It does seem to help clear up chest congestion. The herb nettle (usually in capsule form) is often prescribed for women with a yeast infection (Candida). Can promote menstruation so do not use if trying to become pregnant, pregnant or nursing.
**If you are pregnant, trying to become pregnant or if you are nursing, do NOT use any the remedies listed above.
Monday, August 30, 2010
How to get your ZZZZsss
- limit watching TV or being on the computer at least an hour before bed. (this is a HUGE problem for most people in our modern tech-crazed society)
- write in a journal.
- make sure your bedroom is cool and dark.
- unplug electronics that are near your bed, especially the ones that aren't in use. But also pull the plug on items such as phone chargers, TV, cable, etc. (if you can stomach it).
- create a 'to-do' list of worries so that you get them out and don't mull over them while trying to fall asleep.
- use a few drops of lavender essential oil and rub it on your temples and breath it in deeply.
- gently rub cold-pressed sesame oil into the soles of your feet for five minutes; begin with the toes and work toward your heel in circular motions.
- take a warm bath with a few drops of lavender essential oil at night.
- try a soothing nightcap. Pour 8 oz of milk into a saucepan with a pinch of cinnamon and nutmeg. Heat but do not boil.
- limit eating up to two hours before bed. Having a big meal (especially rich or spicy foods) or drinking alcohol before bedtime disturbs restful sleep.
- instead of counting sheep, count the things in your life that you're thankful for...It is a great way to calm the mind and say 'thanks' for all that you're grateful for.
Friday, June 25, 2010
Self Care - Do only 70%!
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Vino e Espresso
Women who drink wine are less like to develop dementia than those who don't imbibe. (Amer. Journal of Epidemiology)
Enjoy.